Teacher of Legends

Teacher of Legends
Jiraiya, Arashi, Naruto, Who next? Me?

Saturday, March 3, 2007

Failure is a Failure

Failure is a failure. nothing more and nothing else. It will become failure doesnt matter how much u changed it or much you gave excuses.

Failure is a fact. Failure is a condition.
Failure is a fact where you did some jobs unsuccessfully. Failure is a condition where you fail to do your job/s. Why does it happen? why did it happen? No one knows but surely, it is a fate. A fate where you can't change it but surely you can delay it. Correction, you can change fate with your doa.

Whether is a fate or not, Failure is a Failure. I repeat, A FAILURE. Capitol F, Capitol A, Capitol I, Capitol L, Capitol U, Capitol R, Capitol E. FAILURE. It's a supernatural for one who didnt fail at least for once since they born. No, to say it's a supernatural is an understatement. it's SUPER DUPER NATURAL! One has to experience it in his life. Whether you like it or not, it's none of your choice.

Apparently, those who success, are those who failed before. The former and the latter,Which one coming first, I dont know, but those who experience one of it will soon face it's partner. Just like a certain quotation such as "every black clouds have silver linings.". Understand? for those who had failed before surely understand. Translator? A translate one? okaaaay, =every failure has success after it. The only matter is, When. Like fate, success can be delayed, but it can never be canceled.

Unfortunately, death always occur after failure. At this point, you have the choice to opt whether you want to sleep for the eternity until the Day comes, or chose to delay it and gather sufficient supplies for the Day. Your choice! Don't just committed suicide just because your a failure. Don't! It's not worth it. You can give up your jobs but you cant give up your life. It's the matter of life that is significance! Yes, I too am a failure. Not once, not twice, and undoubtedly, more than thrice. Let just say that it's already for the umpteenth times I or even others stumble upon it.

Eventually, stress will be produced from failure. Maybe not for the first or second or even the third times, but it will be, sooner or later. Stress is one of the contribute factors of stroke. Yeah, I spelled it right and even pronounced it. The disease, but not a disease. A kind of strike that will lead you to even cripple, half or both. Cripple! doesnt matter how much. Too much stress, without handling , will be causing the nerves to suffer and resulting the 'rebellion of the nerves'. An assault of the nerves would be fatal even once. Fortunately, for once or twice stroke victims, have the chances to recover, though it will be a long time. Do not let me deter the victims' spirit, they can recover. Thats all what is important for them.

Researched, a few ways to cope with the failure, or in my language, countermeasure of stroke. One, if you think that your failure is one of the 'gah!-i'm-gonna-going-crazy-if-this-thing-wont-stop-ah!-i'm-sooo-stressed!-' syndrome, then try to unleashed it, not your anger or what, but your emotions and feeling to someone else, someone who want to help you, someone sympathetic if none empathetic . If none found, no sympathetic, no empathetic, and no apathetic, then you can released your emotions, your stress and even your anger to the poor, static, harmless tree. Yes! It's the best solution because you dont have to hear it blabbering to your action, berating you, scolding, and whatever else that might break your heart.~

Two, always remember that, you are not the only one who fails. There still others who have the same fate as yours or even worse. Breath slowly, and deeply. Think others who have worse case than yours. Why they didnt succumb to it? How they cope with it?

Three, always remember that everything is fate for you. Everything has its partner. Even failure. After you failed, if you work harder, better, and relaxer, you might success.YOU MIGHT SUCCESS. !!

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